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A Dream Come True

June 20, 2010 — Leave a comment

Dreams! For me, dreams are difficult to explain. Sometimes, i feel like the whole point of dreaming is to envision things that are unattainable. And then there are those few special moments in life when you witness, before your very eyes, dreams becoming a reality.

A few of my “dream-come-true” moments:

  • Getting a BMX when I was 5yrs old
  • Playing drums and touring the east-coast with Paul Rogers + Band.
  • Honoring my mother @ her funeral
  • Hosting concerts for Reuben Morgan (Oct 2005 – Montreal),
  • Starfield (Sept 2007 – Montreal), and Paul Baloche (May 2009 – Brantford)

  • Getting married to the girl of my dreams (follow her)
  • Being in full-time ministry and allowing God to use my family to love people.

This past Friday, another one of those “dream-come-true” moments occurred.
…Enter the LOT PARTY:

September 26, 2009 was our first attempt at an annual (Parking) Lot Party. It was obvious that we were going to learn a lot from this pilot project. What we were envisioning was a FREE outdoor party for all High School students from Brantford and the surrounding areas. We wanted to have inflatable games, a dunk tank, pizza, pop, and an amazing concert.

I know what you’re thinking: That’s all fine and dandy, but would there be a catch to this “FREE” event held in a church parking lot? Would there be this typical bait and switch kind of thing where everybody comes for an advertised party and then in a magical twist, we make them feel like sinners and then invite them to get “saved”? The answer was and still is: NO!

Well, September 26, 2009 proved to be a rainy and cold day. We moved the party inside. We canceled the dunk tank. There were 2 high school deaths the night before. the youth from my own church said the concert was too loud, and so they hung out in the main foyer. the total attendance didn’t exceed 100.

I wasn’t left with much of a dream after the “launch” of our Lot Party except that the bands we hired rocked and that the Lot Part could only go UP (in other words, it couldn’t get worse).

Fast forward to 2010:

  • January: We have a meeting and decide to give the Lot Party another try and move the date up to June 18, 2010
  • February: Valentine’s Bake Sale “Show Some Sweet Love”
  • March: St Patrick’s Day Bake Sale
  • April: Easter Bake Sale // Modesty Fashion Show
  • May: Family Movie Night // Car Wash

That’s a load of fundraisers … all in the span of a few months (February-May).

This past Friday, I realized that God can resurrect some of those dreams that we were ready to bury and abandon. With a few short sentences and pics, I’ll try to sum it all up:

the weather was a perfect 27˚C with barely any clouds in the sky.

the inflatable games were a huge success.

The volunteers were amazing and served BBQ Hot Dogs, pop, popcorn, and cotton candy.

The stage was set for a rocking concert with Manafest (twitter).

After all this was finished, i got up on the stage and stated the purpose for our Lot Party: “We love Brantford and we love you (our community)”.

What dreams have you been putting off? Maybe it’s the right time for you to revisit some of them.

(***if you have any comments about this post or suggestions for our Lot Party, please send them my way)

Here’s a video that came through my inbox this morning. I couldn’t believe what I saw:

I feel so ripped off now! Are you going to try this at home? If you do please let me know if it’s true.
I received this in an email yesterday and I laughed so hard when I viewed these images:
Here’s a question for you when you stop laughing: Do you think rich people have forgotten what it means to be “human”?
Last weekend Pris and I celebrated our 1-year wedding anniversary. After a busy first year, we decided we needed to get away for a relaxing weekend.
2 key factors to our celebration:
  1. Get out of town
  2. Book a couples massage. (Aveda spas are amazing)
Looking back, i realized that months 3-6 were probably the most challenging as that is when we began to have to deal with our different habits and influences – formed from years prior. The challenge, really, is that marriage is two becoming one. So having been through the refining fire (which is a healthy and needed process), We are a better team; a better unit; a better “one”.
Are we perfect? Absolutely not!
Am I still learning how to be a husband? You bet!
Am I loving the process? I’m learning to love the process.
Got any tips for Year TWO?
(a friend already taught me “Happy Wife=Happy Life”)
Kissing the Bride (Knox Chapel – University of Toronto)
my HOT Bride
Posers…